The Four Horsemen of Divorce: Predicting Divorce and Break-ups
Understanding Dr. John Gottman’s Predictors of Divorce and Break-ups in a Holistic Context.
Divorce
Too Many Red Flags, But I am Stronger Now
Trigger Warning Animal Abuse, Domestic Abuse, Domestic Violence, Child Abuse × Dismiss alert The man I met in college was supposed to be the man of my future happiness but I was wrong. In the first that we were dating, he was an amazing man. He cared deeply for everything I needed and was very …
I Came to Earth for the Experiences
I was born in 1948, a front edge baby boomer, a product of location, times, religion, and multi-level abuse. I’m 2nd oldest of 7 with oldest child responsibilities due to the actual oldest having handicaps. I wasn’t allowed to date, no friends, worked away from home since age 11, not allowed to own any of …
6 Things to do before leaving a marriage
When it comes to divorce, things are never easy. That having been said, there are things that you can do, or can avoid doing, to make the transition as, safe, easy and smooth as possible. When you are directly in the middle of a high stress and very emotional situation, it is very easy to …
I remember every moment that made me fall in love with the man who one day would destroy my ease to love freely.
I met the man of my dreams when I was 20 years old, working at a casino as a barista. He was the epitome of tall, dark(tan) and handsome. It was love at first sight. He worked there too, at the steak house, as a server. I was a young girl, barely old enough to …
We were heading down different paths.
I met my ex-husband at an event we both attended in Dallas, TX and we started dating long distance. I lived in Salt Lake City, he lived in Denver, and the quick one hour flight made it easy to see each other at least every other weekend. I was in love! And he ticked all …
Divorced After 17 years of marriage, and happier.
My wife and I met in 1984, we married in 1986, and we separated in 2003. I was 41 and she was 32 when we got married. I honestly don’t know when our divorce was finalized, as it wasn’t a big deal. We had worked everything out by July 2003, so the divorce was a mere …
Married at 18 and Divorced by 21
So I married my high school sweetheart. We met at 14 and dated all through high school. He joined the navy. We got married at 18 when he was at home on a break from boot camp/ school before he was stationed at Coronado Island in San Diego. He deployed while we were married for …
After 25 years of a horrible marriage, I love myself now.
First I was married for 25 yrs. Most of it was unhappy. The relationship started great…then it was up and down forever. We started out living together 6 months into the relationship we were pregnant. I loved him but wasn’t sure if he was the “one”. I wanted the baby, though. So many things pointed …
Best Friends to Marriage to Divorce
When I was 15 years old, I met my future ex-husband. We became friends in high school and for over 5 years, he always playfully accused me of friend-zoning him. Eventually, I realized that I did have feelings for my best friend and we started to date. After a couple months, he decided that he …